The More You Do, The Less He Has To — And That’s the Problem 😮‍💨💔

“You’re doing it all… and he’s doing the bare minimum. Let me explain why.”

If you’re tired of being with men who sit back while you carry the emotional weight 💼❤️.
Read until the end — I’ll share one shift that stops your little overfunctioning spiral for good.

Here’s what most women don’t realize:
When you lead every conversation, make the plans 🗓️, and always check in first —you’re training him to relax into passivity.

How many people can drive the bus at one time? You’re the driver🚗.
He becomes the passenger.

And masculine, provider men?
They don’t chase women who act like them.
They’re drawn to women who create space to be pursued — not managed.

Try this shift today:
Before you send that “just checking in” text… don’t.
Pause. Breathe. Observe.
Let his initiative reveal his interest. 🧠👀

✨The other self-sabotaging behaviors that kill pursuit?
They’re exposed inside LVLUP Magazine 💋.

The Soft Life Starts with a Smart Move—Tap to Own It.

And in the Inner Circle, we never lead with effort — we lead with energy.

Because ease is the new standard. And you're done proving your worth. 💅🏽

Yours In Strategy + Execution,

💁🏽‍♀️Vee